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Find Genuine Connections — Wherever You Are in South Africa

We’ve taken away the awkwardness of apps and random encounters. Beyond the Bar connects you with people who are genuinely looking for meaningful connections in a safe, intentional way.

Our database isn’t limited by location. Whether you’re in Cape Town, Johannesburg, Durban, or a small town in between — if you’re based in South Africa and ready to meet someone sincere, you can join our growing community.

This is your first step to being part of a carefully curated database of men and women who are serious about real connections. Unlike apps, your information stays private — only shared with your permission, when a match looks promising.

What You’ll Receive

• Verification & Profile Setup → We create your private profile with your preferences and approved photos.
• Tailored Introductions → You’ll only be introduced if there’s a confirmed mutual interest (double opt-in).
• Practical Guidance → From red-flag spotting to conversation tips, we’ll help you feel confident meeting someone new.

Pricing

• Complete your profile at NO COST.
• Receive a curated list of potential matches for free.
• Only pay if you want full access to your matches’ contact information and ongoing introductions.

• Database Membership (once-off): R699
  Includes verification, profile setup, and 12 months of active listing.
• Optional Renewal: R199 after 12 months
  R199 after 12 months if you choose to extend your profile.

• No upfront fees, no risk. You only pay when you’re ready to connect.

Why Join?

Because you deserve more than chance encounters. Beyond the Bar is about safe, intentional connections where you’re seen and respected.

• Private & Confidential – Your details are safe with us. Only genuine members who share your intentions will be connected with you.

• No Endless Swiping – Skip the games. We introduce you to people who actually match your vibe.

• Real Connections – This isn’t about fleeting matches or surface-level chats. It’s about creating meaningful bonds with people who value authenticity.

• Be Seen for Who You Truly Are – Our approach goes deeper than profiles. It’s about your story, your values, and what makes you you.

• Belong to Something Different – Beyond the Bar is about more than dating - it’s a movement to bring back genuine connection in a world full of noise.

• Your Next Chapter Starts Here – Whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or simply new people to share life with, your journey begins the moment you join.