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How much does it cost?

Database listing is R699 once-off, valid for 12 months, with an optional R199 renewal thereafter. Socials are prized per event depending on venue and inclusions.

How do you ensure safety?

No one’s contact details are shared without double opt-in. Events are hosted at reputable venues, and conduct rules apply.

Can I attend events without being on the database?

Yes. Anyone is welcome to attend our events.

How are matches made?

You receive private shortlists of people who meet your stated preferences. You mark “interested” or “pass.” When both parties mark “interested,” we confirm consent and exchange numbers so you can connect directly.

Can I choose who I meet?

Yes. We suggest introductions based on your preferences, but you always have the final say before meeting anyone.

Do you come to the date?

No. Once contact details are exchanged, you arrange your own meetup.

How many matches will I receive?

This depends on your preferences, availability in your age range and area, and mutual interest.

What if someone I like doesn’t like me back?

Mutual interest is required before contact details are shared. If it isn’t mutual, we continue sending you other options as they arise.

What’s your refund policy?

Database fees cover verification and setup and are non-refundable. Event tickets are credited if cancelled 48+ hours before; no-shows are not refunded. 

What kind of people join?

Adults in Blouberg and surrounding areas who are tired of swiping and small talk — people who value authenticity and are open to real-world connections.

Is this like a dating app?

No. We don’t do swiping or endless chatting. We do introductions, events, and tailored meet-ups designed to connect real people in safe spaces.

Can I change my preferences later?

Yes. You can update age range, deal-breakers and interests anytime, or pause your profile.

What information is shown to other database members?

In shortlists we share first name, age bracket, area, a short bio and 2–3 photos. Contact details are shared only after double opt-in.

Do you accept LGBT+ members?

Yes. Select your orientation and the genders you’d like to be matched with when applying.

What ages do you cater for?

Anyone over the age of 18 can apply to be on our database or attend our social events. Participation in specific events will depend on the age group the event is designed for.

Can I bring a friend to an event?

Yes, as long as they book a ticket and meet basic entry criteria.

What happens if someone breaches conduct standards?

Report concerns to us immediately. We investigate and may suspend or remove profiles at our discretion.

How is my data stored and for how long?

Your data is stored securely and used only for matching purposes and event administration. It will be deleted immediately on your request or automatically after a set period of inactivity.


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